one of the many advices given by my dad before i left for overseas studies: "don't hang out with the girls from THE-particular-country too much", cos somehow, dad does not really have good impressions of them... probably due to the following reasons:

i) a distant relative divorced the husband cos he was having an affair with one

ii) the many many unfavourable reports on newspapers

and i just found out that my good friend's dad was having an affair... and that the family is facing some messy divorce thingi now...

BUT i am NOT saying that all people from THIS-particular-country are like that... there are black sheep from every country, and i do have many friends who are definitely not in the category as stated in the newspapers...

oh man, why am i writing all these stuff down?? as i chatted with my friend, i was thinking whether to defend the actions of the dad... to love someone else is no sin, but to get involved when one is already married, is... rather unforgivable...

attached but unmarried man ---> bad, but not that bad...

married man ---> why risked breaking up a wonderful family for the sake for someone new??